Saturday 12 March 2011

The First Love . . . . . . . . .



"First love is a little foolish and a lot of curiosity."...says George Bernard Shaw.
Actually the adolescent mind is full of curiosity and it finds mystery in almost every event of the world. Therefore when the emotion of love, attraction of mental and physical desires occur for the first time the curiosity and rebelliousness reaches to its height and often attempts something really radical.
People say first love is one of the most uniquely unforgettable things. One may forget everything but not his or her first love. This is not a utopian notion but those who have experienced this once in lifetime, have considered this as the fact. They may left their lovers a long time ago... after that, when they are peacefully settled and living with their families... they still cherish the sovereign and purest of the memories of their first love. When for the first time the break ups happen to anyone, it pains a lot, because the joy and ecstasy one enjoys from the first experience ever of falling in love is like fresh flowers, the perfume is strong and exhibit a extraordinarily long lasting effect.

As the Benjamin Disraeli said and I quote   First romance, first love, is something so special to all of us, both emotionally and physically, that it touches our lives and enriches them forever”.

Love is fact that happens or not. There is no 3rd condition!! . a person can’t forget his love , especially the First one. While talking with friends, we usually recalled our experiences with love. It was interesting to note that many of us remembered the first time we ever said "I love you" to someone with crystal clarity.

The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end. You will never admit that you are in love. you always ignore. You always hesitate to say that. You start behaving differently. Always wish to see your lover in your dreams. Day and night, you think about her. If you are also experiencing the same thing, than my friend you are in love . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

“Love is always bestowed as a gift - freely, willingly, and without expectation... We don't love to be loved; we love to love.”



Sometimes it is said that when you get married you forget your first love because at that stage you have someone make love but its not true. The fact is that you never forget your first love. You just only try to hide it and besides that the perfect age of love is teenage when you are curious of exploring new thing. Then one day you saw someone, walking alone in the street. Look like she is missing someone. You wanted to say something but didn’t have enough strength but you kept struggling and when you looked into her eyes suddenly a voice came from the depth of your heart “I love you” . you felt the sweet and musical essence of love and romance and then the first kiss made that moment an unbelievable. Which you always remember in your life.  





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